who’s in the wrong??

need unbiased opinions here because i’m just in awe rn of how im being made out to be a horrible person. did a grocery delivery today, $300 of groceries i paid for, i brought inside with the help of my 3 year old, i put them all away by myself, portioned all my meats, organized my freezer + fridge + pantry all by myself while he slept until 3:50 in the afternoon. crazily enough i heard his phone volume start up as soon as all the groceries were up. almost like he was back there pretending to be asleep to get out of helping. whatever. he wakes up finally, my kids have both had their requests, spaghettio’s and chicken & noodle soup, i waited for him to get up so i figured we could eat a little something together and watch a show. nope. he gets up, i tell him everything we have and he proceeds to say to me “so just a bunch of frozen food?” he asks about the little frozen tacos i bought because he loves tacos, taquitos etc. i tell him and all he says back and i QUOTE is “sounds like a bunch of bullsh!t” i said oh. okay. shut the freezer, i went and got some queso out the fridge for myself, warmed it up in a bowl in the microwave, grabbed my tortilla chips and ate because at this point if you’re just going to be an AH, i’ll eat and you can figure it out. he realizes 40 minutes have gone by and he has no food because he never told me what he wanted. he tells me to just enjoy my food and i obviously don’t care about him because he was under the impression i had made him something. i told him exactly what he said verbatim and he tells me that’s not at all what happened, that when he asked about the tacos, i should’ve known and made the tacos. i laughed in his face and told him i don’t read minds and the kids communicate what they want to eat something to eat, so it’s crazy that a grown man can’t. he gets mad, gets dressed, takes the kids and leaves me here all alone in silence.

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Lmao honestly doesnt even matter-just takw it as a win!!! He took the kids and now you can do whatever you want-stress free😂😂😂

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This sounds like soemthing that would happen in my household.. but how did you get him to take the kids? 📝😮

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Girl he took the kids go get your nails done 💅

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Sounds like a win for you

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