need advice!

so i’m about 34 weeks with my first baby 🥳🥳 i have these friends who seem to care more about the baby than they do actually being friends with me ( i met them early in my pregnancy)… one of the girls even implied that their fiancées would be the fathers of my baby… im a single mom and she kept talking about how my daughter would be damaged severely. i dont know my biological father but i grew up with an amazing stepdad who later adopted me. the other girl has her wedding 11 days before my due date and has invited me but im conflicted on if i should even go cause 1. it’s so close to my due date and theres a huge chance she’s going to be early and 2. they honestly make me feel awful. they both came to my gender reveal and talked about morbid stuff on the couch the whole time and when it came to talking me they talked about themselves the whole time and that’s the same way with when we hang out.

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Definitely dont go to the wedding! Spend your last days pregnant surrounded by happiness and good vibes, even if that means just being at home alone 🥰 When baby comes you will realize how easy it is to cut ties with those who do not deserve your child in their life.

It sounds like you should protect your peace and not go. Esp so close to the birth you don’t want to feel stress. take the space and cocoon into birth mode. 💗

Frrrrrr literally have zero friends cause similar issues. It’s like people don’t actually care about you and only care about what you offer. But definately find new friendssssss, they just sound terrible

If the wedding is important to you, going wouldn't be a big deal. If you do go into labor, youd have plenty of time to get to a hospital (given its not far).
But if you dont feel comfortable going, they should understand too! They seem like judgemental people which doesn't really make for a good friend, especislly if you just met them during this pregnancy.

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