There should be…
How are there a million ways to crowd fund ppl in every unimaginable situation that can befall a family or person, but divorce. Like for all the moms who work so hard but even b being financially stable … the stability changes when you leave someone vindictive and still acts like they have all the control. Like why is it U have to struggle to take care of my kids and all of this stuff.. while their dad sits jobless with his mom. He refused to give up his claims to our house so I couldn’t keep the house and now it’s being foreclosed cause he lost his job and couldn’t pay because of his drinking… and he wants to continue to bitch and blame me for everything… and I have to be the responsible one. I have to work super hard to rage care of kids, get myself right, and pay for this divorce and do everything because all he wants to do is let me know he’s fighting for 50/50 custody… like dude get a job. U did nothing for all of their birthdays, for Christmas, and it’s coming up on a year since you’ve seen them and you are pissed I wouldn’t let you claim then, and pissed I won’t pay for them to come see you. Literally should be some help fund my divorce so I can be done with this asshole I will have to coparent with who regrets marrying me and says I’m a horrible mom and person.. ugh our youngest is three so 15yrs. 😭
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See if you can file a pauper’s affidavit so that the divorce is no cost to you. It doesn’t sound like there’s anything to fight over financially. Ask for sole custody even if you might not get it still ask. Things will get better but unfortunately you’ll have to have the mindset that it might continue to be on you but you’ll get through this
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