Intamacy

Out of curiosity, how long did it take before you and your spouse/significant other were intimate regularly again?

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Honestly girl it took a whileee. Even after the 6 weeks out of a month we probably only did it twice. I honestly didn’t have a sex drive at all after giving birth for like 4 months at least. Now she’s 9 months and it fluctuates. It could be 3 -4 times a week but then we may go in a two week break without even realizing it. Of course I had issues within myself just overthinking that I was going to drive away my partner because I just didn’t have the urge or energy. Sex just honestly didn’t even cross my mind the few months. & when I tried to make myself get in the mood it just was even more frustrating. Feeling like I was broken and trying to force myself to get in the mood. But THANK GOD. I have the most patient and understanding partner ever!

What ever stage you’re in. Go easy on yourself. You’ll be back in no time feeling like a SEXY MAMA 🩷

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We try to at least once a week but sometimes baby’s sleep has other plans

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