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AITA for not fully tending a wedding with my husband woth our child

So this Saturday was my BIL wedding and our 2 year 4 months were coming with us. I have no issue because I'm the default parent so she with me 24/7 and that was the day im like okay this is a new experience for our baby girl I'm excited......THE WORSE MISTAKE!!!! Since my husband was the best man and there wedding was 3 hours away, he had to do breakfast and lunch with them so we got up around 5 had clothing in the car and all and my daughter and I ate mc Donald's and slept in the car and etc (9am) we waited for him for 6 more hours (2 pm) between that time our daughter wanted to walk arpund got bored of the toys, I gave her my phone to watch her shows for us to go in for the ceremony his blood related family sat in the front and my daughter and I sat in the back, she knows Saturday and Sunday are his only days off he gets to spend time with her since he works night shift and is asleep all day. So her screaming to be with her dad, throwing herself on the floor, being told to shut her up and looks i felt bad and off. So they finish the kiss and were taken to the hall to eat and music and not even 2 minutes of hearing that loud music our daughter crying doesnt liek the loud music so we eventually get food delivered to us maybe at 6:40pm and I had to get vegetarian because the rest of the food was with stuff im allergic to, but im given gloves to feed my daughter the stuff im allergic to because she wont eat the vegetarian meals. So my husband takes us telling us were going to do photos, my daughter clinging to me screaming as she hears the music from outside coming in, so the bride goes i want family photos, im not included my daughter is. Again its the bride and her day no biggie, so basically I take one photo and were told to go back to the car, I then decided to call my dad to come get us, so by ten he is spamming my phone talking about where am I. I told him dad came to pick us up, we ate real food that wouldnt kill me or anything, J (our daughter) toke a bath and was asleep that she was over whelmed with today. Now he is upset that I left his and he had to come get us to drive another 2 hours and change home. Like not my fault, the minute you saw her beyond over whelmed, you didnt give her time because you knew you were the best man and we cant nor wont bother you and you didnt see us the majority of the night why stay, why be there if were gunan ne in the car turning it on and off for heat and to save gas and etc. Didnt get proper food, didnt get cake, didnt get to anything because I was stuck with our screaming chikd as she wanted her father and her comfortability. AITA?