Help! Advice needed
Soo ive recently started seeing someone who works in my daughters (2y) nursery. She absolute adores him and did before we started seeing each other.
My daughters bio dad has never met her through his own choice and have told his family not to have anything to do with us as well.
The guy im seeing spent the day with us last week and since then she has called him 'my daddy' twice at nursery. Now, I wouldn't be as bothered if it was just daddy but its the fact the shes put 'my' in there as shes really quite possessive over what's hers. I swear she thinks that the word for man is daddy.
I dont really know how to deal with this as in all honesty it makes me a bit uncomfortable and I want her to know from the very start who her bio dad is even if she never meets him
What would you do?
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Definitely correct her, just tell her he’s not her daddy, he’s your friend or something. You said you’ve only recently started seeing each other, so it’s not gonna be very nice for her if you let it carry on and you break up.
Avoid him spending any time with her outside of nursery until you possibly reach a point of him being your forever person, she may not know her real dad, but it'd be sad having the only dad she gets to know stripped from her if you separate
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