Don’t ask me why but we are seperated and going through legal proceeding.. it’s nearly four weeks he left the family home and I’ve not reached out to but he has to see the kids (which he has to go through the solicitors)
I don’t know why but I just wished he was a better person. I always tried my best but didn’t work! Why do I feel this way
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This is actually a normal feeling, many people think that once you leave the love and yearning stops but it doesn’t. But remember you’re still in survival mindset.
Focus on you and the kids, keep yourself distracted and let time do what it does best. Empower yourself cause this feeling although normal to have is not healthy.
Sending lots of love and strength. It’s not a place you want to go back to, there is rarely a change.

Hi mama
You probably feel this way because he made you feel comfortable in the cycle. He was narcissistic and abusive, most people don’t understand what that does to your brain. Feelings come and go just believe you deserve better and you will be better.