3 under 3 or 4?

Is it crazy? Should I just stop at 2? I really want a third.

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To me it's crazy but to others it isn't 🤣 It's all in what you can handle. I know I couldn't so there will be a 4 year age gap between my first and second and I'm done after she's born 😂😂

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Why not have a 3rd but just wait a little longer?

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I had 4 in 5 years and all via c-section. People tell me that I’m crazy all the time for having so many and so close in age but I was always a bit crazy to start 😵‍💫you go with whatever you feel works best for you or if others persuade your choice you may regret that decision later in life.

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Well call me crazy!…I had 3 in 4 years. My oldest turned 3 in February and my youngest was just born on March 21st.

But i absolutely loooove it. Honestly it was harder being pregnant and having to take care of kids than it is to have them all together, if that makes sense.

Now, I do have a newborn which is the “easiest” phase to me. Sooo maybe my real chaos will start when he’s more mobile/independent 😅

My 3rd baby was unplanned (I wanted at least 2 years between kids) but we always talked about having 3-4 total.

But of course, do what you feel you can handle.

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I have 2 under 2 and would love to make it 3 under 3, but I also just turned 40, so I'm running outta time to make any more babies. If I was younger I'd wait at least 18 months before trying for another one lol

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How do you cope with going out in the car / prams with 3?
Do you need a special car to fit 3 car seats ?

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