Today was a prime example of why my niceness of taken for granted. My soon to be ex husband wanted an extra 45 minutes with our son so I let him have it thinking he’s having quality one on one time. He returns with my son by having the home wrecker he cheated on me with not only walk my son up to the door but also tried to step inside. I told him not to introduce him to her yet and he goes and rubs it on my face at MY home. I will NEVER EVER give him extra time with his son. Especially if he is going to turn around and pull that shit. He can stay within the custody time limit for now on. My niceness has ran its course. Fuck him. Now I’m not going to be nice EVER again. He wants more time with his son, he can take me back to court.
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Your feeling is valid….

I understand how disrespect it feels, my bd used to called her while being in my house spending time with my babys, BUT this is not about being nice this is about that is his son and he needs to spend time with his dad. Trust you me i KNOW how it feels BUT, don’t make the mistakes i made dont point him where it hurts cause all he will do is try to hurt you more, don’t tell him what bothers you because he will do it more an more. SADLY you cant ask him who he can introduce or not introduce to your son, but next time that happens try to be in a public place, like a mall or something where you can just go around and dont see it, i know the feeling i know it feels like you are stepping on my territory? But that would be the best advice i can give you. You cant dm me anytime! 💕