Am I overthinking?

Hi, I literally have no clue what to do. I am a first time mum and need advice. My son nearly 3 years old goes to nursery 3 times a week from 8:30am until 5:45pm. His nursery doesn’t do daily updates on the app, only one update throughout the week, even when I pick him up they don’t really give you any updates from the day unless you ask.. my little one is not a good eater and is underweight, I try my hardest to help him with eating etc. I have been told by nursery they only have lunch at 11:30am/12 where kids eat packed lunch and then at 3pm they have „snack” time. When I asked if instead of snack time can my little one have „dinner” that I will be giving, they said no. I started to really think about changing his nursery because they are not even being supportive, and they give off „I don’t care vibe”. What do you think?

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WIBTAH if I start doing the same thing back to him?

My FIL keeps constantly filming me every single say. He isnt even sneaky about it anymore. He knows I dont like and still does it anyways. He doesnt care. The only time he doesnt is when he sees me filming other stuff for youtube cause he knows that I have an increased chance of catching him with proof if I record him recording me. He also aks me awkward questions about my phone even though he is the one recording me.

Nursery Days Advice

So from Sept my LB will be starting nursery - we have decided he will be going in 3 days a week and then 2 days with me WFH. I can choose the days i work from home, we were going to go with the below
MON - nursery
TUES - home
WED - home
THURS - nursery
FRI - nursery
We are now wondering if he would do better doing consecutive days at nursery ie - mon, tues, wed or wed thurs fri?
Theres also option to do mon wed fri nursery, so alternative days.
Has anyone got any advice re this and how has your little ones took to consecutive/alternate days at nursery!

Thankyou☺️

Boundaries!

Girls iv set a few boundaries for when my little lad arrives and a few family members are not happy at all with them and I can’t help feel nothing but guilt. It will be my 2nd child snd iv limited visits to 30-60min and this is one that one certain member of my family isn’t happy about and wearing perfume iv asked for no strong smelling perfume when they visit my new born and the same family member just isn’t happy at all with them. Am I being unreasonable am I being silly? I feel like im not being respected.

On a serious note.

What do you think about a female co worker being partners with your husband at work from time to time and the day she doesn’t go in for work and your husband is working with another person. She texts YOUR HUSBAND “ tell him to keep my seat warm” how do you perceive that?

Weaning struggles

I know they say food before one is just for fun but my baby is over 7 months now and barely eating any food. He won’t let me spoon feed him and if he does manage to get some food in he spits it out. I know every baby is different but how much are your babies eating at each meal?

Taking my one year old for lunch

Anybody else take their one year old for lunch just the two of them? I’ve never been out on my own for lunch before and want to take him out today! Any recommendations/advice?