Why do people always say “so when’s the next?”
Literally my LO isn’t even one year old yet!!
Not only that, you have no idea what people are going through!! Currently going through my 4th miscarriage - had 1 missed miscarriage then 2x chemical pregnancies (early loss) & now another missed miscarriage!!
If only it was that easy to just “pop another one out”!!
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Yeah, that’s not okay. My youngest turned one three weeks ago and I’ve had people asking me if I’m going to have another one. You’re right it’s not easily done however, I for one am now closed for business done and dusted! Sorry to hear about to your miscarriages, hope you’re doing okay. When your body is ready, it will tell you. People seem to forget that pregnancy isn’t easy and it takes a huge toll on your body!

Im sorry for your losses. People are just ridiculous 🤦♀️. There's always a when are you... question but how have we not learnt to be more sensitive when it comes to children and babies. ❤️ I'm sure an honest answer would shut people up sometimes.

I’m so sorry. Unless you’ve had a loss, you don’t truly understand how painful those questions are. I’ve had 3 now and I have a friend who just THINKS about getting pregnant again and boom it happens and she tells everyone very early on.
Each loss has taught me how fragile life is and makes me appreciate my little family even more.