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Baby Daddy Drama

The worst of the worst

Things I need to remind myself every time a thought comes to me about being back in a relationship or any type of situationship with my child’s father whom I’m separated from.

- He doesn’t want anything with me never did and never will he says
- I wasn’t his choice and marrying me was his biggest mistake he says
- He’s a liar and you can never trust anything that comes out of his mouth
- The vows or covenant he took means nothing to him
- He says damaging things to me and retracts them later on to save face
- He uses provision to say he’s a good person because he has provided where needs be after telling me to quit my job multiple times to be a stay at home mom because he makes more money according to him and my little jobs makes no sense
- He resents me for speaking up for myself and my child towards his ex and blames me for breaking up his relationship with her while married to me
- His family doesn’t like me and they never took the time to get to know me either and is prejudice
- He’s not for Christianity lied about that too at the beginning of our relationship and doesn’t believe in God or even that the world was created by god. It was a big bang
- He never once looked me in my eyes and sincerely told me he loves me because he doesn’t
- He has taken multiple jabs at my self confidence and told me I’m not attractive after he stood in the hospital room while I pushed out our child
- He gave me a sti while I was pregnant and told me that he doesn’t know where I got it from because none of his partners at the time had it
- He left me on December 11, 2024 to go to Texas to go sleep with his ex and told me he was going on a camping trip with friends, our child was barely 4 months old.
- He has spoken ill of me behind my back to his friends and family never once protected me/my name and defends them instead after telling me the things that are being said
- He made me know what it was like to have an anxiety attack, never knew that before him.
- He went to Belize in December 2023 and met a girl there that he was sleeping with and came back and slept with me and kept contact with the girl even up until we broke up also sent her money constantly.
- He would ignore our child crying in the night so he could get his rest and I had to just deal with it, no help and when I took a night job when our child turned 1 he wreaked havoc for me to leave it.
- He got me acquainted with a individual he knows he has feelings for and even took things from this person for my child and had me go over to this person’s house all while they have been flirting and possibly slept with each other after we had an argument
- There’s no accountability because none of this is his fault and he selfishly told me he walked out on me because he had to make the choice to choose himself and I was making him unhappy after all the unhappiness I had to endure
- I never cheated once and he has multiple times
- Mentally, physically and emotionally he has put me in a state to not be the best mom I can be for my child as a first time mom and he tells me he has nothing to do with that and he has done nothing to affect our child
- Marriage therapy failed because he said he “relapsed” by flirting with females on social media and kept contact with the female from Belize also contacted his ex to have another meetup to which she declined. He further blamed me for that.

In ending I’ll keep these as a reminder and add more as I remember of why I can’t entertain any thought of being back with this person if he comes back to further manipulate me, not for love, keeping a family I helped to create together or for any reason at all