Me and my boyfriend have been together for years. He has constantly cheated on me online through face time, websites, and apps. His excuse has always been that it’s my fault for having to much prior experience or one specific person from my past makes him feel insecure. We are going on months of no sex. He just uses these apps, talks to other people. But I won’t lie I have an itch, and an opportunity to get that itch scratched if you know what I mean. Do I take it?? I feel so guilty but at this point it feels like we are just friends and I need some love from someone. He knows I’m in contact with this person but I haven’t told him that we have made plans to see eachother
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You and your boyfriend need to separate.

Break up!

This is not coming from a place of judgment, but rather honesty. This sounds extremely toxic and you guys definitely need to separate. If you haven’t had sex in months and you’re aware that he’s been cheating on you continuously, why are you even together?

Sounds like yall need to separate