Mum guilt
So just finished feeding my near 2 week old in bed, had my phone flash on so it’s not too bright so he can’t settle but bright enough for me to see. I sit him up to burp as he’s got reflux and he’s cluster feeding but I noticed my phone was close to shining in his eyes so stupidly, as he was sat up on my lap with my other hand supporting him, thinking I’ll quickly move it away, as I did that he flopped his head forward and as I went to catch him my thumb hit his nose and he started to cry and I feel so so terrible and my mind was racing like what if I broke his nose or something as he’s so delicate and I just kept saying I’m so sorry and kissing him and comforting him.
He’s ok and he only cried for a couple of seconds but I keep checking that he’s hurt as I just feel so guilty about it.
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Awh bless you, so easy done just split second things you had no negative intentions you were trying to make it more comfortable for your boy and it was an accident, don’t be hard on yourself it’s much worse for you than it is him, it was probably just a little startling for him especially if he only cried for a few seconds! ❤️
My baby is 2 weeks old and she managed to headbutt me when I was burping her and I was so worried she had a concussion. They are tougher than we think
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