Anyone Else Getting Hit With Pre-Labor Curveballs From the Universe?

Does anyone else feel like the universe just starts throwing the most random, chaotic curveballs right before labor?

I swear the past few weeks have been a parade of “are you kidding me right now?” moments. Unexpected bills, things breaking in our (new!) building, plumbing issues and flooding stress, HOA headaches, nonstop logistics with a toddler at home, counting down to maternity leave, and trying to keep everything stable while very pregnant. It honestly feels like every time I check one thing off the list, two more pop up.

Part of me keeps wondering if this is some weird pre-baby phenomenon where life just tests your resilience right before the newborn phase begins. Like… is this normal?? Or is it just my turn in the chaos rotation? 😅

Would love to hear if others experienced a streak of “why is everything happening at once?” right before delivery. Please tell me this is temporary and not the universe’s version of a warm-up lap 😂

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100% experiencing this last minute chaos. We're also dealing with HOA issues that are pretty scary. 😭 Universe, why?!

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We just had a sudden and unexpected trifecta of super expensive car issues pop up right as we are trying to pay taxes. I had my eyes on a pretty expensive double stroller that is getting put on the back burner for now, but im feeling grateful that we have all of the basic necessities for baby to arrive. Everything else will work itself out in time, but you are not alone!

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YEEEEESSSSS

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Getting induced next Thursday. This past Monday my van decided to completely go out on the side of the highway 45 minutes from home. Cost way more to fix it than the thing was worth and had to get a new one.

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