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Hi mamas, I am on my 37th week now and I feel very nervous and anxious about the birth. I am planning on vaginal birth with epidural but I am very scared of not having my vagina back to normal as before after giving the birth. I was thinking that I am prepared for this time but seems like I don’t. I also feel very alone. I am not going to have anyone from my family around and it is not because they don’t want to. It is because they live abroad and they couldn’t get a visa to visit us on this important time. 😭😭

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i was nervous too my first time but i can tell you that even with a suprise episiotomy, unwanted husband stitch and all 13 stitches that tore back open during healing (my ob ended up losing his license) and was refused to be restitched, everything is the same as it was before. it’s crazy what the body can do, and real changes aren’t very noticeable but it does take a while to feel like that

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Hi! I have a 5 year old daughter and me and my husband have decided to try for another one. I am so excited but also a bit anxious. I’m currently 35 (36 in august). Everywhere you read it says how your chances of getting pregnant is lower and pregnancies are riskier, so I guess I’m just looking for some reassurance that everything can go fine! 😅

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Creating a rant thread. My complaints about being a mom in my mid 30's my boobs have sagged even though they're full and engorged and I have to hold bub a special way so he can feed comfortably.and what is with the stiffness!? I get it, i no longer have heaps of relaxin in my system but holy balls my lower back! And yeah physio checked me so just having a whinge. Ladies grab your coffee or wine and have a whinge with me.

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Please don’t judge me!!

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How far along are you? (16/04) and how long have you got left ?

Times flying by! Soon be our turn!

I’m 31+1 (according to new due date) with 6/7 weeks left! I cannot wait to finally get a delivery date next week 🤞🏻




I’m honestly jealous of all you singleton mums 🤣 my first pregnancy was a walk in a park compared to this twin pregnancy

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