How would you feel

So my baby daddy paid for a cruise for 10 ppl but through his sister since she have an account, so the names he gave her was him, me and our 4 year old son and his mom his other sister and her and whom ever els was going. We also have a 1 year old he said we will leave with my mom and I’m currently pregnant and due April 23rd. As he was paying the money to his sister for the cruise I ask him what was the dates he said they didn’t have dates so I was like okay, his sister called back and gave him May 4th-9th so I said I’m bck out because my baby would only be like a week and some days old and ima still be healing so I ask him if it’s possible if we go in June at least I would have been had my six week check up and everything he said she said we can’t change the date so I’m heated because I really wanted to go and for him to leaving me with our 1 year old and a newborn is crazy and when he bring my 4 yr old bck I’m leaving him until he know the family he created is just as important as the one he come frm how do you guys feel about this situation?

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There’d be absolutely no way I would let my husband go on a cruise with his family about a week after I just delivered our child. If the sister isn’t able to find a way to reschedule it for a later date, she should try to cancel the tickets for all of you, and you guys try to go some other time with or without their family.

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