Note this does NOT extend to disabled people or people fighting illness/disease.
I mean I dont want friends that smoke, drink excessively, do drugs, are physically unfit by choice or just generally dont take care of themself.
You are who you surround yourself with and I just dont want that around me.
And if you'll say 'i dont want judgemental friends' thats fine but I do not believe wanting people to be healthy is wrong I see it the same as not wanting my friends to be racist.
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I don't really care what they do and I don't judge, as long as they don't bring drugs etc around my child or turn up drunk/ we get on well then no problem