If ur man won’t stop finishing inside you even after discussing it prior what do u do?

I have an iud but I don’t want my PH thrown off, and he does that to me every time… Have 3 kids my oldest is barely 4 and their father won’t stop. We split up earlier this year and reconnected barely 2 weeks ago and Im just really bummed

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.
Add a comment
Avatar

You stop engaging in sexual activities until he can respect your boundaries?

Avatar

That’s sexual assault if you have asked him not too.

Avatar

Yea that’s definitely weird if you’ve asked him to stop doing it and he won’t. I have an IUD as well and I’ve told my man that before or will remind him not to do it all the time bc I wouldn’t want my PH thrown off either and he listens. I would suggest telling him if he doesn’t stop then yall can’t do anything sexual bc it can be a risk for you.

Avatar

Yeah if yiu say stop and he still does its considered assault. If a baby results from it, most courts look at it as rape.

Avatar

Love that's assault if your not consenting. If he isn't respecting your boundaries withhold access. The right man for you is going to respect you and you won't have to keep asking him over and over.

Read more on Peanut

Trending

in our community

If ur man won’t stop finishing inside you even after discussing it prior what do u do?

I have an iud but I don’t want my PH thrown off, and he does that to me every time… Have 3 kids my oldest is barely 4 and their father won’t stop. We split up earlier this year and reconnected barely 2 weeks ago and Im just really bummed

Avatar

6

Burned out

Let me start this off by saying, I don’t need any negativity. I’m not jumping off the deep end. I love my daughter 1000% and I wouldn’t trade her for the world. Did I choose to have her, yes. Did I understand my actions. Of course I do. So that’s not what I need nor want to hear as a response. But part of me genuinely does not want to be a parent right now. And I don’t mean pack her up and ship her off for adoption or abandoning. I mean the tasks, and the disciplining, and all the other stuff. Parenthood is fun, amazing, great..sure. But it sucks. It’s draining. It’s exhausting. And it’s chaos. And no one talks about it. Everyone talks about the bright side, and how lovely it is. But no one tells you how dark it can get. Do I sound depressed.. yeah sure. Probably. Am I? Quite possibly. But this shit is hard. And no. I didn’t just have her. She’ll be 4 in July. Are they’re great parts. Absolutely. Do I live coming home from work and hearing/seeing her excitement when I walk through the door! Of course. Do I love seeing her grow and accomplishing new tasks every day? Of course. Do I LOVE those tiny hugs and snuggles and random ‘I love you mommy’s throughout the day? Wouldn’t trade it for the world. But this shit isn’t for the weak, and there’s no preparation for it. Working. School (for me). Being the default parent. Managing all the day to day tasks for everyone. I’m burned out. And I can’t be the only one..

Avatar

1

4

Is this the start of an early faint positive

I am only 8dpo but thought I saw a super faint line this morning. I have tried using the checker app as see alot of people using it. With this I feel like I can see a line starting to appear. Last try as can’t go through a miscarriage again 💔🌈

Avatar

3

8

When to see GP for advice?

TTC baby 2 since December and period has just arrived at 7DO.

All my cycles since we started TTC have ended at 6-9DPO and I feel like that shouldn’t be happening??

How long do I wait until I seek advice from a GP? We’re desperate for another baby and I feel like my body is failing me :(

Avatar

7

8dpo testing

Have caved and tested and now convinced myself this cycle didn’t work 😢😢😢 would there be atleast a tiny something by now on a test because they are very very much negative!

Avatar

5

TTC Journey

I’ve been doing everything to get my body right for a baby, I have PCOS. My partner and I have been trying for a baby and nothing has been working. He smokes black and milds daily which is a big issue and I believe that is the reason why I haven’t conceived yet but it’s so fucked up because I just found out he gave me chlamydia so I believe that could’ve been the reason why I wasn’t conceiving neither 🤦‍♀️ he says he got it from an ex before me and he had no symptoms but I felt like as a man, he should’ve went to the doctor instead of spreading diseases knowing that people can’t easily be trusted smh

Avatar

1

3

Read more on Peanut