I have an iud but I don’t want my PH thrown off, and he does that to me every time… Have 3 kids my oldest is barely 4 and their father won’t stop. We split up earlier this year and reconnected barely 2 weeks ago and Im just really bummed
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You stop engaging in sexual activities until he can respect your boundaries?

That’s sexual assault if you have asked him not too.

Yea that’s definitely weird if you’ve asked him to stop doing it and he won’t. I have an IUD as well and I’ve told my man that before or will remind him not to do it all the time bc I wouldn’t want my PH thrown off either and he listens. I would suggest telling him if he doesn’t stop then yall can’t do anything sexual bc it can be a risk for you.

Yeah if yiu say stop and he still does its considered assault. If a baby results from it, most courts look at it as rape.

Love that's assault if your not consenting. If he isn't respecting your boundaries withhold access. The right man for you is going to respect you and you won't have to keep asking him over and over.