Is it bad???

That I’m one and done? I feel so guilty to not give my daughter another sibling but she is a hard baby and newborn stage was so awful for me and struggled really bad with PPD.

Also not support from family members either so it just me and husband

Thoughts?

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No. Have as many or as little children as you wish to. Your womb, your choice x

Please don’t feel guilty 🤍 You’ve already been through so much, and your well-being matters. You’re her whole world—if you’re happy and mentally okay, she will feel that love and security. One child or more, what matters most is a healthy, happy mum.

I feel the same way. No part of me is bothered about having another, maybe in a year or two I’ll feel different but meh… 🤷‍♀️

No, I also feel the same way for exactly the same reasons too. 😊

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