Dory’s reef

I was absolutely ripped apart at baby group for showing my nearly 5 month old dory’s reef. Can I have other peoples views? Am I wrong? Do you use it?

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Not heard of it, used Google. I allow my 4 month old daughter to watch mickey mouse teice a day, 2 half an hour episodes. Watching her get all excited ehen mickey comes on fills me with happy hormones and I use the time to do ver bottles. She doesnt sit close to the TV. No matter what we do as mums we will be judged. So do what you want and do t let others opinions change that. Youre doing great 🫶

Honestly, every parent uses different tools to get through the day, as long as your baby is fed, safe and happy. I don’t see the issue, each to their own but to rip into someone for that is completely uncalled for, sorry it happened to you!

You know your baby, your circumstances, and what works in your home better than anyone at that silly baby group.

Be kind to yourself. The bigger issue here sounds less like Dory’s Reef and more uncalled for and unkind those people were. Hope you’re ok! X

I love dorys reef! Ive used it with both kids. Its sensory stuff like dancing fruits but less stimulating. So many people use dancing fruits and don't realise how overstimulating it can be for some babies. My first hated it

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