Morning everyone!š„°
I am just after some honest advise
I have an 8 month old, soon to be 9 months and I have found out I am 7 weeks pregnant. It will be a 16 month age gap which is quite a small gap, is anyone else in the same position or similar age gap?
How did people/ your employer react?
I havenāt gone back to work yet, I am due back next month and I am really struggling with the thought of telling them I am pregnant again as I will only be back at work for around 5/6 months and I feel awful!
Thank you in advanceāŗļø
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Iāve just had my second baby and I have a 17 month age gap. For me, itās such a lovely age gap. Yes, it can be tough with them both so young but my eldest is so sweet and helpful with the newborn and sheās not old enough to be jealous or anything like that. He is 8 weeks and they are already becoming great friends.
I was only back at work for 5 months and work seemed to be fine. I was worried but try not to and Iām sure it will be fine. You wonāt be the first person to have babies close together. The canāt really do and say anything otherwise it could seen as discrimination.
Thank you so much- I think I am just so worried and overthinking everything as this wasnāt planned
I am just worried about judgement from others and I know I shouldnāt be as itās completely irrelevant.
Thank you, youāve eased my mind massively!

I am due any day now with my second and will have a 14 and a half month age gap between the two. I was also worried about telling my employer but honestly it was all fine, they even offered if I wanted to take my accrued leave so that I donāt have to go back to work in between both maternity leaves.
I have had a mixed bag of reactions but honestly itās no oneās business š¤Ø

Hey I have a 17 month age gap and was nervous about the same thing, my team leader at work was really understanding, I was only back at work 5 months and everyone was really happy for me tbh the only ppl who werenāt were my partners parents which was disappointing but they love baby boy now ig,