Need advice

They do. You’re both just going through a lot. Good and hard! Hormones don’t help either which amplify feelings right now. Maybe see if someone can give you all an hour of time by yourselves? You could also do a therapy session just to talk through things. Hang in there. It’s so, so hard.

hey girl, i understand you. i think it’s more of a grief thing (for me) because i overthink at night about how we used to be, how our sex life was, and everything we could do or did. communication is key, it might just be what ur feeling because men don’t think so much about things like that so for him it’s probably jst because he doesn’t want to be seen as a bother so he’s not so affectionate. or maybe he feels like ur the one that’s not “the same”. I hate confrontation so if ur anything like me, what I do is wait for bed time, baby asleep or not. the lights are off and just speak about it. so there is no distractions or u feel embarrassed. i promise u will feel so much better, especially if there was a reason behind it. don’t feel wrong for feeling this way, i definitely go through this a lot, especially during night because that’s when i overthink. u got this