Intimacy

Our baby is now 11 weeks old and we both adore him! However, we recently found out he has severe reflux (now medicated) and CMPA + soya+ egg allergy (also being exclusively breastfed due to bottle refusal) so he is a stage 5 clinger and only naps during the day on us but does do short stints in the next to me bed by himself at night.
My question is how are you all being intimate with your partners? We are still flirty and jokey with each other stealing kisses and cuddles when we can so I know the spark hasn’t gone. But how do you get more intimate? We can’t do anything during the day as explained and at night he is in the bedroom with us so seems wrong to do anything 😂
Help a girl out who would like to do her husband again😂

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in our community

I had the thought “I hate you” and it scared me 😭

I’m 2 weeks PP and sleep deprived and exhausted. I had the thought and then felt incredibly guilty and scared. I love my baby so much and I would never do anything to hurt her so this thought freaks me out. I think more accurately I’m just struggling right now and hate some of the changes in my life.

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Pregnancy snoring anxiety

I have started snoring and apparently it is *loud*.
I have major anxiety about keeping other mums awake on the labour ward after giving birth. I’ve tried saline spray and trying nose strips tonight but I think I’m more stressed about this than labour! Anyone else in the same boat or have any advice?
Thank you!

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MUMS OF 3

I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old, even though I’m so freshly postpartum I do want one more. Am I going crazy? What’s it like having that extra kid? What’s a good age gap ? Maybe I’ll wait until my newborn is 4?

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Milk supply

I normally have oversupply but since last night my supply has dropped massively and baby even had a dry nappy between midnight and 3.30am. Usually it is at least wet.

How can I get my supply back? I normally feel engorged if he sleeps 4.5-5 hrs without a feed but tonight I don't feel anything

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i left

left my abuser today. we have a 6 month old baby. dont have it all together but have family support. any and all encouragement/success stories if youve been thru this please feel free to share🫶🏼

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Breastfeeding

Baby girl was born on 25th my boobs are so engorged I cannot sleep because of how full they are (even after a feed) how do I push past this and relief the pain (don’t say pump as it makes more milk)
I really want to breastfeed but I can’t with the pain please help me

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