Lonely

I’m a Sahm mom to a 17 month old and I absolutely love love love being a sahm, but it gets lonely. I try so hard making friends even on here but on here I’m the only one who seems to message and/or keep up the conversation and if I don’t message first. It’s like that’s it. It’s the same in my life. I have a couple friends and I’m always the one to reach out and schedule things and if I don’t then it’s nothing. The same with my family. I feel so burnt out in the people department. My husband works alot and our only village is my husband and I. It gets lonely because most of the time he gets home from work and wants to be on the game or his phone. I just want a couple girlfriends and to build a village but sometimes it seems impossible.

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Hey u can text me if u want

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I’m also a sahm and I have a 3 year old and 3 month old. I’m here if you wanna chat!

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Yeah my son is 17months and my daughter is 6months

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I feel you! It seems like a norm these days.

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Feel free to msg me I’m a sahm of a 4 month old boy and I’ve had the same experience so ik how you feel ❤️

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Yay! A group made for me!

I thought I was the only one without a bestie! It’s weird when you leave anything that’s a formal setting like school or work and move house or country far from everything and everyone you knew growing up.

Starting to look for new friendships feels so weird to do at this stage of life, but sometimes you just want to find a girlie who gets it!

So here goes nothing! I’ve just Turned 30, married with 1 little girl and I need friends!
I like to go to tea, music, horses, cars, interior design, fashion and a good amount of reality tv! I am a full time SAHM I use to work in HR and studied Graphic Design at university (so a jack of all trades in my likes but a master of none) you could put me in any room and I’ll be comfortable and can talk to anyone about anything, yet I’m absolutely an introvert so that’s like my problem 😅

So here’s to trying to put myself out there!

(Oh and clearly no grammar or true punctuation was used in the making of this… so happy reading🤪)

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Looking for a bestie 💕

Hey mamas 🤍

I’m putting myself out there a little—because making real, genuine mom friends as an adult is way harder than it should be 😅

I’m a stay-at-home mom of three, running on coffee, chaos, and love. My days are full (and loud lol), but I’d really love someone to chat with, vent to, laugh with, and just get it. You know… a bestie who understands the mom life without needing a full explanation every time.
I am a fur mama - 4 dogs & 2 cats.
I’m from Nova Scotia, Canada 🇨🇦

I love photography, cozy nights in, and those rare quiet moments (if you know, you know 😂). I’m all about real conversations—no pressure to be “perfect,” just being ourselves.
I’m a binge watcher. Love reality tv!
Horror movie fanatic.
I love reading 📖😊

If you’re also looking for a friend to text during nap time, while the kids are in school, share life updates with, or even meet up eventually, I’m your girl 💕

Let’s be besties? 🫶

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