I just moved in with my best friend today after an awful break up. She has a new boyfriend and he was saying things that didn’t add up. Saying he was in the military, was in war and has ptsd from shooting people, etc. he’s only 20 and only graduated from high school 2 years ago in June. He lied about getting in a bar fight and almost killing someone when in fact he had charges for stealing and using someone’s debit card. I brought these up to her which she then told her sister I blew it out of proportion and she left for the weekend… I’m having a really hard time because I just want to feel like I’m not upsetting someone for once. I looked into these things because he’s going to be around my baby. I’m just tired of hurting.
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Sounds like a pathological liar. I would keep to myself and make an exit plan.

I think if she’s kind enough to let you crash with a baby. Then for now you know. Keep your head down. And focus on what’s next for you and your baby to get your own place.
It’s mad important you work towards having your own place in case the baby father wants to start a custody battle.
When you have your own place for you and your baby.
Then you can control who comes around.

You weee definitely being a good friend but sometimes people don’t like to hear the truth i wouldn’t bring it up again just watch all your things and your baby things and be looking for a job etc go get on your feet so you can move out