Help?

Looking for some advice on this as I’m totally lost.


My husband and his family have decided to cut my whole entire family out, out of nowhere just decided they don’t like my family and are bad mouthing them in front of me.
We have a baby together and his family are requesting they come and see our baby.
I understand they are his grandparents but I feel so uncomfortable, they have bad mouthed my whole family in front of me and cut them off….
Now they want to come into my home and spend time with my child.
My husband says I have no choice and they are entitled to see him but I feel so uncomfortable and like this is not fair on me at all.

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Its a bit tricky because you’re married but i personally wouldn’t let anyone who bad mouths my family see my baby because imagine what evil things theyd say to him about your family

It’s like a reflection of u

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I would say if his family want to see the baby he can take the child over to theirs and you not go.

That’s what we do as I’m not the biggest fan of my mother in law but I don’t want my kids to miss out if they want to see her. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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If they don’t respect you they don’t deserve to see baby! Nobody just has rights just because they are blood doesn’t mean much nowadays sadly.
How it is in my family!🫶

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