Am I being unreasonable?

Ok so this post is more aimed at the UK mums but anyone can answer.
Soo basically let me give you some context first... I have two best friends (who dont know each other) both looking to get a mortgage currently, and as you UK mummas know its very hard to do that in your 20's and is a really big/exciting thing. One of them told me what her and her partner were doing etc house viewings and showing me the places she liked.
Now I've only just found out about my other friend (who I'm her one and only bestest friend) doing the same thing, and she ONLY told me because I told her me and my partner are viewing places to rent (cant get a mortgage currently as I am sacrificing years of studies to get my doctorates.. hence working part-time).
This has kinda pissed me off tbh because and yes I know it sounds so pathetic and a non problem but I'm pretty tired of always opening up to this friend and updating her on everything, yet shes so cagey on things all the time. Even when we meet up its mainly me talking about me as much as I ask her stuff shes just a very private person. Dont get me wrong she does tell me about things obviously and she is a great friend but I'm tired of prying to know anything about her life.
Another thing, so my little one is 5m old now and when he was a month old she was 7w pregnant and was so excited to tell me andwe would talk about it all the time. But unfortunately at her 12w scan the baby had not made it. I was so upset and she was obviously devastated. And I've tried to not deep it too much but a part of me cant help but feel like shes distanced herself a little from me because I have a baby. Idk maybe I'm way overthinking it because she asks about him a lot but I have to trust my gut and part of me thinks that shes being weird beause of the baby situation.
For more context, were the kind of friends that meet every 3-4 months but text most days. Since my baby has been born weve met once in just under 6 months and she keeps cancelling meeting up to work overtime.
Sorry that was a long one😩🤣 but please be honest am I unreasonable for being annoyed about that?? ... just to add I would never tell her/ show her that I'm annoyed

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Do anyone else feel like your an aggressive parent? And you have to be because the other parent is more soft than you? I don’t know I currently have a 4 year old , a 9 year old , 9 month old and currently pregnant with another boy! And my boys are ROUGH I love my babies but their “ BOYS “ constantly fighting constantly crying constantly breaking things constantly talking back and the list goes on I feel like I can’t be the soft loving parent at times or instead of yelling I can’t sit and just have a talk becasue it doesn’t work AT ALL my house is never quiet and dad is the complete opposite of me he HARDLY gets onto them for their wrong doings and his baby them which is fine at times but there are times where discipline is needed etc etc and I have to be that parent and it sucks.