I have always wanted 3 children and am lucky enough to have 2. However during my last pregnancy my waters broke at 30’weeks, with me giving birth at 35 weeks via c section after some heavy bleeding. I also bled a lot during my C section as this was my second C section and almost had to have a blood transfusion.
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I think this is more a question for your doctor/ a medical professional x

It depends whether a medical professional says its safe to have another. However speaking from experience with having a traumatic second birth and going on to have a third. No birth is the same. My second came at 34 weeks, spontaneous premature labour at home, he had shoulder dystocia and wasn't breathing and needed to be resusitated. He spend a long while in nicu with it being touch and go for a while. I just gave birth to my third 2 weeks ago and it was the easiest birth going, only 4 hours and no tearing

I would wait a few years minimum to make sure my body has recovered and then I would seek obstetrician advice. Only they can assess you, know your medical needs and your individual risks.

If you want 3, why don't you see an obstetrician to assess any risks?
Every single pregnancy carries unforseen risks and no one will be able to guarantee this one will be fine.
But if you really want 3 maybe you just need to work with a therapist to deal with your previous traumatic birth experiences.