20 month old and 9 week old.

Hi

When did you get into some kind of Rhythm with your two under twos please?

I’m having an overwhelming time and keep having thoughts of this is not what I want or wanted and adoption of my 9 week old I’m unsure if this is postpartum thought or reality but I’m struggling.

I have my husband who is here since as he’s been made redundant for now and even with him here I’m still having these thoughts and feelings so when he does start work how else would I be?!

Advice needed thanks x.

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I found it started getting easier around 5 months when the baby felt less fragile and the eldest turned 2 and decided he wanted to be a bit more independent

You’ve absolutely got this, it’s hard but you’re doing your best and you are EVERYTHING to your children x

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