Husband acts weird about my cleaning habits. Am I the wrong one here?

Our baby is 3 months and I’m a FTM. I have been trying to force myself into very regular routines of up-keeping the house, bathing baby regularly, caring for pets, etc. etc. That makes sweeping an every-few-days kind of chore.

My husband always says I can hand the baby off to him while I’m doing chores or finishing projects around the house. He does a little cleaning, but he’s a lot more nonchalant about it all.

He’s been acting perturbed lately, thinking I’m being manic and having to stop and clean the whole house down, but it’s just sweeping, dishes, laundry, mural painting (weekends), pet, and baby care.

It’s just how we gotta be as a parent right? Any advice on how to make the daily processes less exhausting?

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Am I been a psycho.

My husband has always been the type of guy to big me up, tell me I’m beautiful when I look like a troll and make me feel better about myself, he never ever looks at other girls, he’ll look away at nude scenes and if I make a compliment about something he won’t bite or anything.

Currently 25 weeks pregnant and measuring huge, feeling insecure, been talking about monjaro and stuff once baby is born

Anyways, today I’ve gone on his phone to show him something I wanted ( mine was changing ) and a message popped up from a work friend ‘ can’t do anything outside of work ‘ so I was curious to what had happened, and bad wife award, I snooped.
Anyways I end up seeing and I’m absolutely raging.
I’m more annoyed at the fact he has NEVER been that guy but he seems very influenced by a guy who he speaks to at work. I know there celebs and he would never stand a chance but just the fact I’m feeling so down and ugly and he’s literally making comments about other girls has me in tears and feeling sick.
Can I just blame the hormones 😞

Nursery fees

Can someone explain to me how nursery funding and fees work please? I really don’t understand it all. All nurseries will send their prices, is this just the price if it’s private or are there fees even with the funded childcare?

Safety lessons

What are some lessons/rules you’ve taught your kiddies to help keep the safe?? For example, we have a no secrets policy…

Baby interested in food

Hello,

Is anybody else's baby interested in food shes 12 weeks today and we obviously aren't weaning yet. But she is chewing the meal with us.

Is anybody else's little interested?

Husband broke up with me

Ex-husband broke up with me after us having a toxic relationship for almost 2 years. He dint want to have sex anymore and blamed me 100% for the relationship. I told him that although I started the fights at the beginning of the relationship he started hella disrespecting me and now it’s our job to fix it together. He said no. Would you guys get together with a guy that said “I’ll sell your nudes for my dream truck, BUT NO ONE I know can know about it” told me to
“shut up” while I cried in pregnancy once and after. Said “I’m annoying”
“I’m so tired of your bullshit”
“I don’t have time for this”
“ you’re the reason my life went down hill” “it’s your fault I gained weight”
“I feel trapped I can’t do things I wanted when I was single”
“ it’s all excuses”
“I see you as the mother of my child, I’m not in love with you anymore”
“ you ruined this family” bc I would cry for everything
“You’re not my dream wife”
“I didn’t sign up for this”

He left for a trip and told me “I’m super excited to leave and not have someone🫵🏻 argue in my ear 24/7”
“I don’t want a relationship”
“If you really love me you would’ve clean and cook” I did but not constantly
“I love you a little bit but not as before, sorry”

He broke up with me but expects me to hangout maybe once a month just the two of us. I did last week and treated him like a friend, I noticed he did not like that at all. Therefore he wants me to be his friend but a little more that but no relationship. He wants to travel, come home and hop on the game without thinking about nothing. And I really do miss him but at some point I need self respect and dignity. I done beg him. What do you guys think

Nursery anxiety - pick ups

I’m quite anxious because my daughter started nursery yesterday and they asked me to bring her dad to pick up so they know his face.

When I ring the buzzer they just let us in and I can’t see any camera so how do they know it’s us? It’s at the back of a children centre so we have to walk through corridors to get to the nursery entrance but it scares me they’ll just let anyone in to collect her. They’ve never asked for password either or who I’m picking up it’s like they just seem to know??