Nursery anxiety - pick ups

I’m quite anxious because my daughter started nursery yesterday and they asked me to bring her dad to pick up so they know his face.

When I ring the buzzer they just let us in and I can’t see any camera so how do they know it’s us? It’s at the back of a children centre so we have to walk through corridors to get to the nursery entrance but it scares me they’ll just let anyone in to collect her. They’ve never asked for password either or who I’m picking up it’s like they just seem to know??

in our community

Am I been a psycho.

My husband has always been the type of guy to big me up, tell me I’m beautiful when I look like a troll and make me feel better about myself, he never ever looks at other girls, he’ll look away at nude scenes and if I make a compliment about something he won’t bite or anything.

Currently 25 weeks pregnant and measuring huge, feeling insecure, been talking about monjaro and stuff once baby is born

Anyways, today I’ve gone on his phone to show him something I wanted ( mine was changing ) and a message popped up from a work friend ‘ can’t do anything outside of work ‘ so I was curious to what had happened, and bad wife award, I snooped.
Anyways I end up seeing and I’m absolutely raging.
I’m more annoyed at the fact he has NEVER been that guy but he seems very influenced by a guy who he speaks to at work. I know there celebs and he would never stand a chance but just the fact I’m feeling so down and ugly and he’s literally making comments about other girls has me in tears and feeling sick.
Can I just blame the hormones 😞

Don't know what to do anymore

Not sure what to do and hoping for some sort of help or information on where to go from here??

My son is 15, and is an absolute idiot. He gets round with the wrong people, acts up, tries to play the big hard man. We moved away for a little while and it was like he was back to his old self. Then we moved back and he's just changed. I don't even recognise him anymore. He has smashed 2 phones in 3 months. I just don't know what to do. I can't take the daily calls from the school anymore.

Men are dumb sometimes

Hi ladies
Honestly my husband does things that truly baffle me.

So tomorrow we have an estate agent coming to our home to value it and take pictures. You best believe I’ve just cleaned and organised that house from top to bottom. He knew I was doing this as I started work late on purpose so that I had the time. You would think he’d have the common sense to hide my birthday present wouldn’t you.

I mean don’t get me wrong I’m grateful I’ve even got a present coming my way but it was literally just sat, BOX OPEN for all to see in our spare bedroom. 😑🤦🏼‍♀️🙄

How can a man be so thoughtful but so dumb all at the same time.

*sigh*

Now I’m gonna have to do my absolute stellar acting performance to make out like I’ve not seen it and I’ll have to act really surprised on my birthday.

Men!

I think my marriage is over

Me and my husband have been arguing a lot recently and we got into two arguments last night he got upset moved all his things out the room including his nightstand , he no longer want to take my son (not biologically his) to the bus stop anymore or pick him up from after school camp (we only have one car ) he stated that we are separated and refuses to have a conversation . I think it’s a chance my marriage is over we have been down this road so many times and now I’m feeling like what am I gonna do to prepare for a life without him I have been with this man since I was 18 I’m almost 26 now I’m a Sahm with no car or income I have never done life without him my oldest son also doesn’t know my husband his not his bio dad . I’m not sure what to do I want my marriage to work I do but being down this road so many times what if I have to prepare for a life without him

Nursery fees

Can someone explain to me how nursery funding and fees work please? I really don’t understand it all. All nurseries will send their prices, is this just the price if it’s private or are there fees even with the funded childcare?

Feeling guilty..

I’ve recently had my second baby and it’s made me realise how ready my 4yo is to go to school.

I found it quite easy when it was just me and him. I’m a SAHM and he only goes to preschool 9 hours a week which I coped with fine like we would do lots together but now I’ve got another little one to consider and raise I feel like I need a break from him more than ever & that makes me feel really awful.

Is this normal? I feel like a bad mum like it seems I’m trying to get rid of him but I just find having both of them all day together ALOT.
How did you find the transition from 1 - 2 kids?