Anyone else miss their old life? And feel like they’re just waiting for it to ‘get better’ like everyone says it does. Ftm to a 5 week old bubba I love her to death but also feel I’m struggling with it all and just tired of constantly being mum now lol . I feel terrible so pls don’t judge me just needed to vent
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You are in the trenches friend. You can feel this way. Definitely try to find some time to yourself if possible, ask your village.

I’m in the exact same boat mama! FTM to a 5 week old and despite loving him more than life itself, really struggling and grieving my old life. There is a reason everyone says it gets better though, I think we’re just in the thick of it and will someday say the same thing?

Girl I miss my old life! I’m dealing with and learning about all these new types and kinds of responsibilities I never even imagined! You will eventually learn a new way of doing life and will ultimately find new ways to embrace that chapter