Starting to stress

So I’m 24 weeks pregnant and due in August. I think it’s just because I’m pregnant, but every day I get more scared of the thought of giving birth. I already have a 3 year old, so I keep trying to tell myself, “I’ve done this before, I got this,” but hearing all the stories about both C-sections and vaginal births still scares me. I had an emergency C-section with my first, so I fully plan on having another one, but I still get really nervous thinking about it sometimes. I still have about three months to go, so I’m trying not to overthink it too much.

Any thoughts or advice?

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I had my 3rd almost 4 months ago and I was so nervous this time round yet had done loads more practising with breathing through labour and reading up more on the stages. A birthing pool was amazing all 3 times

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Same here, I'm due august and freaking out.... I'm no help I've just been indenial 😆

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Starting to stress

So I’m 24 weeks pregnant and due in August. I think it’s just because I’m pregnant, but every day I get more scared of the thought of giving birth. I already have a 3 year old, so I keep trying to tell myself, “I’ve done this before, I got this,” but hearing all the stories about both C-sections and vaginal births still scares me. I had an emergency C-section with my first, so I fully plan on having another one, but I still get really nervous thinking about it sometimes. I still have about three months to go, so I’m trying not to overthink it too much.

Any thoughts or advice?

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