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One thing I don’t like about myself is when I know what I’m about to say to someone then my social anxiety randomly kicks in and I don’t say anything.
So my son just started getting transportation to school . So the company called me Friday and told me the company name and what logo and color van that picks up the kids for school . So when I saw the van pull up I noticed the color of the van and I looked for the company logo to make sure this is the transportation for my son . So we went out for him to go to school and I didn’t say his name I waited until they confirmed his name and then I let him get in like I spoke and everything I’m just mad at myself that I didn’t actually say hey can you confirm his name now I’m having mom guilt 😭. Like I knew that this is the company that supposed to be picking him up for school I’m just mad at myself for not saying anything I feel dumb was I wrong ?

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Girl I’ve been there. The important thing is they confirmed and your son is safe.

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You double checked before you let him on. You kept him safe. Just because you weren't verbally assertive means nothing. You did the right things your way. Nothing wrong with being yourself and modelling that for your son.

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