3rd pregnancy and struggling!

I’m 28 weeks today with baby number 3 and I’m seriously struggling - like thinking how could I possibly go another 12 weeks level.

My bump is huge and I’ve put on so much weight, people genuinely think I’m overdue when they see me. I’m struggling to stay awake most of the day and can hardly walk to the end of my very short road before everything hurts and leaves me feeling crippled for the rest of the day.

Im at stay at home mum, which usually is my greatest joy and pride but I’m so emotional all the time and I’m short and snappy with my husband and daughters who are only 4 and 1.

I diddnt feel like this with my previous pregnancies and just don’t know how to survive the next 2.5 months :’(

Is anyone else feeling similar? Any tips or advice please?

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This is my second pregnancy and honestly I have been really struggling too. Between work and looking after my toddler I have almost no rest time, and have been feeling so much more exhausted than I did the first time round. My husband has been really great at taking on more of the load when it comes to looking after our son but even so I am still so tired and also anxious a lot of the time which is super annoying. I've had a turbulent relationship with anxiety since I was a teenager but largely for the past 7 years had been in a really good place but this pregnancy has really thrown me a curveball.

Don't really have any advice (if anyone else does then I am all ears!) But just came here to say I definitely know how you feel!

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Now stuck with the 2 hour wait 😴 I don't think I'll have GD, I didn't with my son, typically I get dizzy if I've not had any sugar for a while too and my sugars have been known to be low so probably all fine.

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