Sleep training guilt

We've just sleep trained our 4.5 month old and it's worked really well. Gone from 4-5 wake ups each night with needing to feed back to sleep + nerve wracking transfers, to 10.5 hour sleeps with minimal stirring and no crying to sleep. He's a happy boy during the day too, and goes down for naps fairly easily in his cot too.

We did NOT use the cry it out method, but still why does social media shame me and make me feel like the worst parent ever 😥 there are so many nasty comments about how I don't love my son if I chose to sleep train him and how I've created attachment issues, despite no research suggesting that whatsoever.
Sorry, just came to vent ☹️

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6 week old smiling?

Is it possible for my 6 week old to be smiling yet? I took this photo and thought it was just a lucky capture however today she looked at me and smiled for a few seconds. Id like to believe shes actually smiling but is she? Lol is it even possible at this age

Nappy Brand

When I went on maternity leave, I was gifted a nappy cake from a charity through my work. The nappies were out of their packet so I am unsure on their brand & want to know before using.

Does anyone know what brand these are? Added a picture for reference!

Early autism signs ?

My four month old is a beautiful little girl who we love dearly. At home she’s very smiley and has started to make giggly noises. But when we go out she becomes very serious and easily freaked out. She shows no interest in toys - preferring to watch our faces instead. I’m starting to worry it might be a sign of autism - too early really to tell I know. Or that she’s naturally very shy and antisocial- if she is of course then that’s absolutely fine. Me and her dad are very outgoing and I’d just be a bit sad if she doesn’t like being around lots of people.
Is four months still early to play with toys? She’s alert, feeds well, normal nappies etc, watches me and my dad intently when we’re moving round the room. She doesn’t laugh properly yet but makes noises like she might. Is this normal? Anyone else had a similar sounding baby that turned out a bubbly social child? Obviously I’ll love her no matter what but feel it’s good to prepare if she is more sensitive and possibly on the spectrum.

Thanks x

Unsafe baby wearing

Would you politely tell a lady at a play group she is unsafely wearing her baby in the carrier?

There is a lady at the play group I go to who has an older child and a small baby who she often wears in a carrier. The baby is far too low, their face smooshed into her jumper and the legs dangling incorrectly. I always want to say something, but I’m too afraid of upsetting her or it causing a row when I’m only trying to be considerate of the baby. She has lots of friends at this group she speaks to and I can’t help wonder why no one else has said something before, or if they have, she’s ignored it!!!???

Advise????

Relactation

Has anyone started their breastfeeding/pumping journey again after a very long break of dry. I haven’t breastfed or pumped for 3 months and I’m thinking about restarting. I just pumped and got a small amount of colostrum out but I don’t know if I’ll ever get a supply back.

Weaning from breastfeeding to the bottle

My baby is 3 months and been breastfeeding from birth . Advice needed - Weaning from breast feeding to the bottle . We want to still do both , but getting on bottle so my partner can also feed and other members of the family can help. Any recommendations would be helpful .thank you