Have anyone experience the loss of your child’s father while still pregnant. I just recently did and I’m so hurt and this pain is something I’ve never experienced and I just hate that my son won’t get to ever meet his daddy. I’m trying not to stress but it’s hard. He was also my fiancé. I don’t know what to do.

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I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I don’t have any of the right answers, but Im sending all the love and good vibes 🤍🤍

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No, but I'm afraid I might. He's older, and has health issues so it's always a fear in the back of my mind. I pray that you have a good support system and someone to talk to. Very sorry for your loss

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Having my baby boy any day now. My first is a girl and in a way that felt easier for the sake of feeling like I know what comes with being a girl. Me and my partner decided not to circumcise our son but everyone I know has been circumcised or circumcised their sons. I understand why people do circumcise it but it’s not something I’m comfortable with and don’t want to for the sake of “everyone else does it”.

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