11 weeks miscarriage

It was my 2nd miscarriage within 4 months my first one lost baby at 4 weeks but this one lost at 11 weeks and hit me so hard… I never thought miscarriage can be delivering your mini baby like giving normal birth but unfortunately not alive baby i honestly can say this was the most traumatic moment of my life. I saw the little baby in a sack and i am keep thinking about the baby and see that baby all the time. I have 3 children already and although they are small all under 4 years old they keep me busy all day but I just can’t forget that moment and that little baby. We are happy family but I am living in misery and keep thinking if I ever forget this feeling and be normal happy again does that sadness feeling ever go away ? I just want to cry all the time and see that little baby everywhere I go

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Aww hun I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please seek therapy if you can.

i had two miscarriages before also within 3 months. Then later I have two best health baby. I was pretty sad before but looking back I think this is just a process keeping the health one and getting rid of unhealthy one.

So sorry 😞

Ive been there i lost one at 9 weeks went on to have a rainbow baby but the next baby i was so confident I made it to my scan with no bleeding that I was ok. Soon hit me once I saw the screen 💔 no heartbeat and baby didnt look like they should at 12 weeks. After the lady did her measurements turns out baby stopped growing about week 8. I had to take meds to bring on a miscarriage. I felt awful. That miscarriage hit me the worst. Mentally and physically. In time it gets better. The heartbreak never fully goes. You'll be happy again in time. I cried so much too. You're grieving. Sending you virtual hugs ❤️

So sorry for your loss. I have had 3 miscarriages, two in the first trimester and one in the second trimester. The pain never fully goes away, but it does dim and life continues. Sending all the hugs ❤️

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