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Food for thought

One of my friends, who is in her mid-30s, recently told me she doesn’t want children because she enjoys her sleep, likes going out, and values the freedom she has in her life.

I want to clarify that I’m not someone who thinks everyone should have children. In fact, I think there are already plenty of people who became parents when they probably shouldn’t have. Parenthood should be a choice, not an obligation.

What I’m curious about is this: what do you think would make family life more appealing to women today? I’d exclude finances from the discussion because financial concerns have always existed to some extent. Interestingly, most women I know who have chosen not to have children don’t mention money as their main reason. They usually talk about travel, social life, freedom, independence, and sleep.

It makes me wonder why family life seems to have become less appealing to so many young women. Personally, as I get older, I’d love to be the kind of role model who shows that family life can be fulfilling and rewarding not because women are expected to do it, but because it can genuinely add joy, purpose, and meaning to life for those who choose it.

What are your thoughts?