After pre school/reception

Can I ask what everyone actually does after school? My 3.5 years old is so tired when I pick her up at 3, we have a quick play in the park and home by 3.45ish she then just wants to watch TV till dinner time around 5, then she plays whilst I clear up then up stairs to get ready for bed at 6.30. She has a 11 month old sister who plays with her toys whilst the TV is on and then plays with her after dinner. I just feel like I should be doing more?

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Chinese Takeaway

Hi! We're having Chinese takeaway for dinner tomorrow. I don't really like my almost 9 month old to have really unhealthy foods so will probably make her her own meal but before I do, is there anything from a Chinese that would be suitable for a baby?🩷

Am I in the wrong?

Ok so it’s 1:42 pm and I tell my boyfriend I’m hungry and he responds with “your always hungry” mind you i have not eaten anything today. Which I tell him he responds with “I haven’t either and I’m not hungry and I’m bigger then you” mind you I’m exclusively breastfeeding his baby, I’m losing weight all the time due it plus not eating because of this shit he pulls. He also doesn’t want to ever go out to eat which I get but also doesn’t want buy groceries either. It’s not like I ask him to take me to some expensive restaurant I just wanted something cheap or a sandwich. Tired of the controlling and not having any say of the money even tho we both work together to make the money he controls all of it.

How is everyone getting on with weaning?

Pic of my nearly 8 months lunch and what was left 😆 he loves his food! (Raspberries were squashed before serving!)

Daycare guilt 🥲

My baby (11m) is going to start going to the childminder every day because I’m going back to work. She already goes 3 days a week and loves it there but I still feel wrong about taking her sometimes. Now with 5 days a week I have so much guilt over it 😔😔😔

Nurseries and screen time?

My son (3) is starting (council i.e. "preschool") nursery next week and I've just found out they do group screen time where they sit the kids down to watch Danny Go or "dancing strawberry" (no idea). I hate the thought of this and I am particularly worried as my son is hyper sensitive to overstimulating graphics (he had a type of seizure when watching a bright cartoon once, and complains about his eyes going funny if there's any flashing lights or graphics ever). Do I have any grounds to stand on in requesting they drop this? Is this common practice in nurseries?!

I had a chat with one of the nursery staff members today during our settling in, and explained my concern. Her only response was that they only do screen time "once in a while" which hasn't reassured me.

Starting real foods

My baby is around 4 months old so I want to start researching how to introduce foods. We want to be giving our baby lots of iron and things like bone marrow, not rice cereals. Are there any good resources to go off of? Thank you!