Is petty to divorce because husband disrespected over his sister and for not taking me out on Mother’s Day but taking his mom out

Me and sister in law use to be friends really good friends but she always had a thing with communicating I would call her and talk about myself and give her plenty openings to talk about her or she would call me listen to me talk about myself one day I was like yeah this is weird because she would claim we’re besties and I said nahh we’re not we’re good friends but anyways I would ask her about life she would say oh nothing and people would tell me about her life and during postpartum she did the same thing and barley called but I told my husband hey ur sister doesn’t communicate and it really hurt my feelings he started to dog me and talk about how I’m self absorbed his sister is a good person and I’m just selfish and I’m an adult I need to get over and stop expecting the world to revolve around me

Oh on top of that this past Mother’s Day his mother is staying with us for a while and they went out on Mother’s Day left early
Morning came back late didn’t invite me out and did the same for Eid and now honestly I just want to divorce him because ew I rather be single he says I’m crazy and Eid was a mistake Mother’s Day he was a jerk

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Chinese Takeaway

Hi! We're having Chinese takeaway for dinner tomorrow. I don't really like my almost 9 month old to have really unhealthy foods so will probably make her her own meal but before I do, is there anything from a Chinese that would be suitable for a baby?🩷

Am I in the wrong?

Ok so it’s 1:42 pm and I tell my boyfriend I’m hungry and he responds with “your always hungry” mind you i have not eaten anything today. Which I tell him he responds with “I haven’t either and I’m not hungry and I’m bigger then you” mind you I’m exclusively breastfeeding his baby, I’m losing weight all the time due it plus not eating because of this shit he pulls. He also doesn’t want to ever go out to eat which I get but also doesn’t want buy groceries either. It’s not like I ask him to take me to some expensive restaurant I just wanted something cheap or a sandwich. Tired of the controlling and not having any say of the money even tho we both work together to make the money he controls all of it.

How is everyone getting on with weaning?

Pic of my nearly 8 months lunch and what was left 😆 he loves his food! (Raspberries were squashed before serving!)

Nurseries and screen time?

My son (3) is starting (council i.e. "preschool") nursery next week and I've just found out they do group screen time where they sit the kids down to watch Danny Go or "dancing strawberry" (no idea). I hate the thought of this and I am particularly worried as my son is hyper sensitive to overstimulating graphics (he had a type of seizure when watching a bright cartoon once, and complains about his eyes going funny if there's any flashing lights or graphics ever). Do I have any grounds to stand on in requesting they drop this? Is this common practice in nurseries?!

I had a chat with one of the nursery staff members today during our settling in, and explained my concern. Her only response was that they only do screen time "once in a while" which hasn't reassured me.

Starting real foods

My baby is around 4 months old so I want to start researching how to introduce foods. We want to be giving our baby lots of iron and things like bone marrow, not rice cereals. Are there any good resources to go off of? Thank you!

Am I overreacting

My partner and I went out for the day yesterday and left our daughter with the in laws for the first time. When we went to pick her up my MIL said she hoped we didn’t mind but she had taken her to one of the neighbours. We were both annoyed by this and my partner expressed our disapproval and she tried to justify it with “she brought her a present when she was born”. The more I’ve thought about that comment the more it’s annoyed me as present buying shouldn’t give any entitlement to see someone else’s baby. This isn’t the first time they’ve crossed a boundary with her either.