Name too close to sibling?

We have a son Henry and am pregnant with a girl. Super stuck for names.
We both love Harriet but know it will get shortened to Harri. Is this too close to Henry? Henry and Harri.
Other name we both like is Matilda but I don’t like Madi ahhh!

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Do you like any other Matilda nicknames? I love Tilly!!

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I love Matilda and think it would get shortened to Matti or Tilly rather than Madi!

I think Harriet and Henry would be ok though too. Maybe try shouting them a bit like you're calling them for dinner, and see how much of a tongue twister it feels!

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What about Hattie as a nickname for Harriet?

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if you think Henry & Harri sound similar, you could go with Harriet and use Hattie as a nickname - Henry & Hattie as siblings sound so cute together!

also, i have never heard Madi used as a nickname for Matilda. if you want to use a nickname, you could consider Mattie, Tillie, Millie etc. I love Henry & Tillie for siblings!

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My first thought when I saw Henry was Henrietta but then you said you didn’t want too close together

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I love names that start with the same letter and think it flows nicely when they are similar. I do think Hattie is a cute nickname or even actual name too. I have an Oliver and when I was pregnant with my daughter I was desperate for Olivia. Everyone said it was too similar but I didn’t care. We sadly lost my husbands Gran so we ended up using her name instead Dotty (Dorothy) which I love but I’m gutted I didn’t get my Olivia lol xx

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I worked with someone who had Henry & Harriette… but none were ever shortened, think it’s fine

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I like both options! Like previous comments, Hattie is a cute nickname for Harriet. I also think Mattie and Tilly/Tillie are both cute nicknames for Matilda 🩷

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Absolutely would be so mad if as a girl my parents called me Harri, Hattie is way more feminine and soft. And doesn’t have a hairy man association with it.

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Nickname could be Hatt

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Harriet is adorable with Henry and I would nickname Matilda, Tilly. Other option is Tilda. Never heard Madi as a nn for Matilda.

Another name for the Harriet vibe is Heidi. So cute.

I also adore Ottillie as another longer name for Tilly.

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