I’ve been fired from my job this morning. Don’t know what you to do now.. feeling broken.

I cried. I am clueless what’s next? Husband is supportive but I don’t know why it happened. I believe in God and trust the process but this was insulting..

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Why did they fire you?

I’m sorry to hear this! …. What reason did they give you?

More context is needed here. But I am sorry you're going through this, must be so stressful

If you are in the US, you should immediately apply for unemployment. It can take awhile and the sooner you do it, the better

I experienced this early last year. I was broken and furious. But take it at a blessing in disguise. Just trust that everything will work out and you will be just fine. Well over a year later, through some hard times and struggling financially, I am at a job that I absolutely LOVE and my husband and I are making the most money we’ve ever made. Just trust the process! Every job I’ve ever left of been fired from has worked out for my better good. Wishing you the best of luck on a new job that you love. ✨

I understand this must be scary but maybe its for the best and you'll end up where you belong. Im not sure what services are available where you are but I was able to get help with job training while I changed careers. Might be something to look into if you have anything like social services

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I’m from quite a religious family. In your opinion What age is appropriate to breastfeed in public without it becoming weird for people

Advice please 🫠

Hey guys ,
To give a little context I have an 8 month old and live with my in laws . They are middle eastern while I am British . Every time I give my daughter a bath I wrap her in a hooded towel and then a fluffy blanket around the towel and bring her downstairs to lotion her and change her as I don’t want to in the bathroom floor as it’s tiled and not comfortable in general . Its to a point I just avoid giving her baths when my mother in law is in the house as she has a major issue with me bringing my daughter downstairs to change her and thinks I’m making her sick and she’s too cold and that it should be done in the bathroom . I try rush down before she sees 🙂‍↕️ She always comments and tuts and keeps muttering in her own language hurrying me to go down quickly and then gives out to my husband about it . I’m like so confused I’ve always grown up doing this in my family . I’ve researched and babies don’t get sick from being a little chilly which I don’t think she even is . They get sick from viruses . It just is so frustrating . I’d rather do our wind down routine in the bedroom on the comfy bed and I take my time with her and give her a breastfeed than do it quickly in the bathroom while she’s on a hard surface . Am I making sense or am I being cruel and I should change her upstairs ? This is genuinely a major issue since birth .

I am so so so ANNOYED! We go to the beach, they have worn their swimsuits only once! And I am planning on using them alot more this year when the weather gets better but I have washed them only once and on the correct temperature...

And they've gone MOULDY!!! I am absolutely fuming!!

Advice please!

My MIL likes to FaceTime my 17 month old while she’s getting ready for the day and she’s been making a lot of comments about her own appearance like “maybe I need an eye lift look how saggy” and “I need spackle to cover these wrinkles.” I really don’t want my daughter growing up 1) paying attention to aging with concern and 2) learning to see bodily changes as negative and 3) having bad associations with self esteem and appearance.

Ultimately, my MIL like to complain around my daughter and talk about how hard life is but like get a therapist for that…

I should say something, but what?

Husband with postpartum depression

Any tips on how to offer support to my husband who I suspect has postpartum depression?
He’s been very low for months, snappy and short tempered and is really struggling to bond with our baby (8 months old).
Our baby is obsessed with me and basically rejects his dad if I am present, or cries for me as soon as he sees me even if he was happily playing with dad a minute earlier. The constant rejection is really getting my husband down and he even says he sometimes hates our son.

We need help but I don’t know how to help him… tips please?

He won’t go to the doctor about it.

Anxiety to go out with baby

Hi all,

I have not gone out with my baby by myself. I have with others but I just feel so anxious going by myself. I live in an apartment building with no lift so I also feel anxious about that. I want to be able to go into town by bus or walking with my baby and sit at a cafe etc but I feel I can't do it. I feel like such a bad mum.

I also get worried about my baby catching viruses etc. u know I can't continue like this. Has anyone else experienced this?

I feel if the apartment building had a lift I would feel better instead of having this extra thing to worry about.