Anyone else become petty after the baby?

I’m even finding my friendships to be transactional. The ones that never ask if I need help? I have zero urge to get a babysitter to hang out with them. Why spend money to go hang out with you and spend more money when you can’t even be bothered to be my friend for free??

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I lost all my pre baby friends lol tbh I can’t stand them. No one asks if I need help ever with my one old. I had a pretty traumatic birth and was told my baby would be confined to a wheel chair for life (he’s not thank god) and none of my friends came to check on me even the ones with babies. Most people dropped me. I’m pregnant again and I’m 30 weeks . Just ended another friendship w a friend who’s 7 weeks pregnant and told me basically I’m not supportive enough to her lol