am i tripping?
so i met my bd when i was 17, he was 44. at the time i recently moved to the states and i was living with my grandma and we weren’t the best of friends anyways i met him and he told me i could live with him, two months later on my 18th birthday i got pregnant. fast forward now, i found out he has 3 other kids by 3 other women who he HID from me. If I speak to any of my family members he starts an argument and threatens to kick me out. i’m also an immigrant so he threatens not to marry me so i get my papers. So he works on the weekend, everytime he works i have his 5 year old, he was granted custody of him because the mother was abusing substances. i am now 19 and its sad to say but if i wanted a 5 year old kid i would’ve had one. HES NOT IN SCHOOL BTW. So last night i told him i can’t babysit one weekend because my family and i want to do a little get together, he starts arguing that i should take HIS child. I don’t think that’s my responsibility, i am entitled to my child and still living my life. So because of that he threatened to stop proving, now i’m considering to go to the shelter and start brand new. what are your options? please tell me if im wrong