Indoor play?

I feel like so so guilty I feel like my 16 month old is so bored in the house all the time and I suffer with really bad anxiety so struggle to get outside and we have no mummy friends!! Anyone have any indoor/garden play ideas for my 16 month old girl help a mama out !!!!

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Hitting and hurting

Posting incognito because I’m embarrassed

I’m really struggling at the moment and I feel like I can’t do this.

My son 18 months is hurting me non stop. All he does is hit me kick me pull my hair or hit me with objects. I’m unwell at the moment so I don’t have the energy to do all our normal activities. My son has all his toys in reach but he just uses them all to hurt me or he will just jump all over me and hit me.

I’ve tried all the gentle parenting ‘gentle hands’ ‘I won’t let you hurt mummy’ I’ve showed him gentle hands. But nothing is working

My partner also does things like throw teddies at me infront of my son. Hit me In a joking way or trip me up ect. I keep asking him to stop but he doesn’t

What do I do ☹️

Are these red flags from my boyfriend and how do you move forward?

My boyfriend and I are on vacation and I was on my cycle and got blood on my bikini while we’re at the pool with our daughter. I accidentally sat on one of our daughters new stuffed animal and got a bit of blood on it. So I wrapped the stuffed animal with a towel and also quickly wrapped a towel around myself. As we’re walking away going to get our kid to go to our room, I realize my towel is falling off and ask him to plz grab the stuffed animal from me (which is wrapped in a towel) so I can keep my towel from falling off. He moves his hand away and says ew, then he goes I’m not just gonna touch that like that. So I go why are you acting like a damn sissy like you haven’t seen my blood before (he’s watched me give birth). So he gets so upset by my comment and starts telling me how I’m so disrespectful. I keep walking and tell him it’s not the time since our kid was coming up to us. Then, we get to the room and instead of letting me wash off first, he hops in the shower before I could even think about it. So eventually we talked and he apologized but I just don’t like that behavior and did not expect him to act like this in that moment. We’ve been together for yearss and I know he’s not a squeamish person when it comes to blood. So when I asked he basically said he felt it was gross that I expected him to just grab the stuffie without making sure it’s properly wrapped first when it was. But am
I crazy for feeling like it shouldn’t be that big of a deal for him to grab it with or without it being wrapped in a towel ? It’s my blood not a strangers. But anyway idk what’s up with men sometimes. He was so upset the rest of the day he told our daughter he didn’t wanna give her a hug or a kiss when she asked. Like yall he’s a good man when it comes to many things but he does stuff like this and I’m like wtf am I doing with him? We’re supposed to get married soon and I’m questioning all of that based on some of these things I’ve been noticing lately.

Please help me understand..

I’ve been married for 8 years and feel lonely and unloved. My husband is still in love with his ex that died in a tragic way. He had seen it happen and has been really messed up mentally. He tells me how he wishes I would be more like her. How he misses her so much. Why can’t I try to look more like her, to trick his brain to think she is still here. It’s like I’m not the one for him and she way. Like I will never live up to the expectation of her. I want to feel like I’m enough but he says I haven’t made him feel like she did. That I’ve been mean to him and I’ve hurt him. He says that he wants another girl around to fill the void, sexually and not sexually. Wants to have a threesome (even suggested a girlfriend at one point) no matter how many times I’ve made it so known I’m uncomfortable with it and don’t want to do that. But I’m told I’m given everything I want and I should be able to give him this one thing. everyone tells me I need to leave. That if he is going to act like that then he’s not for me. That he has to much healing and trauma to get through before he continues in a marriage. But I am in love with him. I’ve been in love with him since I was 7 years old.. I married him. I had children with him. He is it for me. I just feel so lost. I don’t know grief. I’ve never lost someone I loved. I don’t know how to help him get past this or at the very least, love me like her or maybe if I’m lucky more than her.

I don't know what to do

Here lately my s/o has been accusing me constantly of cheating. Just because we have had s** in 6 months(because I had a hysterectomy). So any little things he Nick picks over. He's constantly been going thru my phone. I can't leave him rn due to several underlying problems. But I don't how much more I can't put up with everything.

Lack of interest in partner normal?

Resentment and disinterest towards my partner. I only received one month maternity leave and I had to go back to work immediately after that luckily, my job is flexible and allow me to work from home for an extra month with a valid doctors note since I had a C-section but now it’s been two months and I’m back working and I’m miserable but I don’t show it at work and I have sour taste towards my partner for reasons that I don’t even understand. I feel that he could just be very lazy sometimes and I do the bulk of the work taking care of baby, cleaning the house, picking up after him, working for 40-50 hours a week then coming home exhausted. He was like this before I don’t know why it bothers me so much now. He’s a good guy and respects me and I think he makes a good dad. What is wrong with me? Is it the hormones and me being away from my baby or what?

Is it just me?

I’m 34 weeks and nothing is ready. My hospital bag isn’t packed, the crib isn’t set up, all of baby’s stuff is in a corner in our room waiting to be sorted and washed because I have no space to put it. My husband has started jobs like painting the bathroom and not finished. I’ve asked him to build something and put up shelves which isn’t getting done and although he works full time I feel it’s holding me back from being able to organise things. I am starting to get annoyed with it all now. I feel like there’s no help and the flat is just getting on top of me now with all the clutter :-(