Screen Time

So we've pretty much been screen free with my little boy since about 3 months and its been pretty easy as he's at nursery 4 days a week and we just have music on or are outside most of the time and we haven't really needed it to be able to get things done. However ive seen a lot of posts on here, tiktok and from friends saying their little ones loves a certain character so much and have loads of character themed birthdays and im now wondering if my little one is missing out. Has anyone else done no screens? Do you feel like they are missing out and are you thinking about introducing it soon?

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How are you doing it all?

My husband is not happy with our sexlife. I don't do it enough and don't do porn star performance.
I try to pour into myself regularly, skincare, hair, light makeup, dressing up, gym and dance classes.
He listed these things out like they were a problem. I'll ask him to watch the kids so I can xyz. Gym and dance classes are normally after I put the kids to bed but thats when he wants my time and attention.
He literally argued for an hour last night. He's done this 3 times, always late into the night when im not in the head space and super tired. By the time he finished his point and calmed down, I believe it was 3 am. And we didnt go to bed until 5 am. He wanted sex, I participated and performed it was enjoyable at first but then it got annoying. I was tired and these days sleep always sounds better than sex he just took so long to finish I was actually getting pissed off.
Today I woke up, I threw on jeans and a tshirt. Basic moisturizer and sunscreen no makeup and clipped my hair back. I wanted to cry. Im worried he's gonna keep complaining about my hobbies and I'll end up quitting to keep the peace.
I'm not perfect, dishes and laundry pile up, the hoise isnt always presentable and food isnt always done sometimes he comes home from work to cook and clean. He feels like hes always helping me with my job but no one is there to help him do his.
I have an appointment next month hoping the Dr can give me something to improve mood and productivity.

Nursery

What age/ the best age and a good age u put ur children into nursery and for how many days each week and hours each day?
Been accepted for 2 different nursery both the same days but different hours and the first day to start nursery are different
First baby so unsure with everything and how it all works thank you

At home with a new born and a toddler

I have a newborn and a 2 year old and they’re not in day care (by choice- I love being at home with them), but my husband has been on paternity leave for the past 3 months and is going back to work next week. I’m a little nervous to be at home alone with both of them trying to juggle the breastfeeding, meals for my toddler, nap times for both, etc etc. Any tips from moms in similar situations?

Am I doing something wrong?

I just had a C-section last Monday. I am able to do things but not unless I take my pain meds as prescribed. My partner is here to help me but he sleeps very hard and very deep. He can sleep through the baby crying sometimes. He tells me to wake him up and I try very hard but it always leads to us arguing. Last night it was pretty bad. He claims I kicked him in the rib cage which I didn’t. I did however use my foot to rub his sides. Mind you, before all this I tapped him, talked to him, etc. He responded but I guess it was a fluke because he doesn’t remember that. Only when I “kicked” him.

Today I did it all. Got our 5 year old out the door and been with our 2 week old all day. He came home from dropping off our 5 yo and has been sleep ever since because he said he’s only been getting 3 hours of rest. Am I wrong to start resenting him?

Small teethers

Can anyone recommend any small teething toys? My 3 month old is quite little, I got some teething sticks but they're way too big for his mouth!

Need advice

So I’ve been with my fiance for about 2.5 years. I got pregnant pretty much as soon as we got together. I never wanted kids, but decided that since he already had kids, it would be okay. Fast forward two years later, I’m a stay at home mom who has never not worked a day in her life. My husband is the sole provider and he doesn’t make enough money for us to comfortably live. I can’t go back to work bc we don’t have family and daycare is expensive. All we do is stress about money and fight about stupid shit. I’ve felt like I lost my purpose. I feel like I made a mistake. I’m so in love with him. But this is not the life I want. Idk what to do, or how to tell him.