Group chat?

I’m postín incógnito only because I’m sure there will be someone will be upset of me saying this for some reason.
I need a SMALL like no more than 10 people group chat of women who understand there might be a day or so I don’t respond because life gets busy sometimes. I’ve been kicked out of three groups just for not responding the required 5 messages a day.. and when you continue to add new people everyday how are we supposed to get to know each other personally when there’s 20+ people and people are going in and out … I’m desperate to make an actual friend group that understands at this point..

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Hi! I completely get this! My close friends know that sometimes I just have too much on my plate to respond but know I will eventually.

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I feel that I’m in I’m the same way I get busy with my kids or other family things and forget to check my phone

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I feel you. I just got added to one ans its got so many people now, I became uninterested cause all it was was multiple over lapping conversations I couldnt keep up with 😅😅

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I don't understand how some of these moms have so much time on their hands that they expect the rest of us to answer immediately. Like I have 2 higher needs toddlers. I want friends not reply demands. I feel you on this

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I totally understand this

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Heck, maybe us few should start a GC, this sounds like one i could be apart of

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I 100% get this. 20+ brand new people would be super overwhelming for me under any circumstances, and having a required number of messages a day is wild. I get wanting people in your group to stay active, but like.. life happens 😅 even one-on-one chatting with people I genuinely like, I'm gonna have days that I just don't have time.
People who demand constant 24/7 communication just aren't a great match for me.

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I get this every group chat I was in was so many people and I always got kicked out for not responding everyday. I’m a pretty introverted person but I still like socializing so 20+ people in a group chat is a bit much for me

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