We have no adopted children but my son's cousins are adopted, my mom was, and my best friend's son.
Recently my 4 year old has been asking questions so I lightly talked about it with him, but I'm looking for more resources so I can make sure I'm phrasing everything correctly.
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In the UK we have a life story book that is usually completed prior to the adoption and given to children. It explains the adoption and reasons for adoption in a child friendly way so I wonder if you cousin or your best friend have one for their adopted children. If so you could find out what it says and use that to explain it to your son. Also there's a book about a little girls adoption called 'Tell me again about the night I was born' by Jamie Lee Curtis.

I know a book called we belong together it is a children's book.